What does it mean to be a feminist? By definition, feminism means “the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes.” So anyone who believes that men and women should be equal meets this definition. Unfortunately, this definition of a feminist has been warped by the media to mean something else entirely. Now a feminist is seen as someone who hates men, believes that women should be in power, and doesn’t shave their legs (what men usually believe) or must always be going to protests, advocating for equal rights, stopping every person that makes a joke, and owning their body 100%, someone who never does things for a man (what women usually believe). The problem is, nothing good comes out of these definitions. The only result is people feeling left out of “being a feminist” or do not want to identify with that term because it stands for something that many think of as bad. Media has been the main factor in spreading these two definitions. Look at things like the abortion ban. If someone, usually more for women, doesn’t post something about it on social media, they are told they aren’t a real feminist and that they don’t care about women’s rights. In the age of media, everyone’s words become the same as their actions, and if someone stays silent, then they are on the side of the oppressor. On the other hand, women who always post about equality issues on their social media, or do not hesitate to call out men for being horrible are seen negatively. They are viewed as too aggressive, man-haters, and people who complain too much about a system that is seemingly inevitable. Regardless of the circumstance, or the particular definition at hand- while media is a good tool for raising awareness about feminism and issues regarding gender equality, it is also very divisive. Social media turns feminism into something that it is not, taking attention away from gender equality and changing it into some sort of faction system, with everyone taking up a definition of feminism that strays further and further from it’s true definition, creating a feminism checklist that many do not fit or simply do not want to. Now is not the time to be divided, it is time for everyone to come together and utilize social media to build a strong community, not to tear one apart.
Often times, people fail to realize how much of an impact that the language they use can have on other people. In an age of social media, this problem has only worsened. People feel safe behind a screen, be it a phone or computer, and have no issue using offensive slurs/ insensitive phrases because they will never have to deal with the consequences of their action. Very few people I know would have the nerve to come say n*gger to my face, yet I see many that I know feeling very comfortable using it online where they think their actions don’t count. This environment is only cultivated by social media, with people flippantly throwing around words like retarded, f*g, and d*ke, without thinking about the impact their phrases have on others. Yes, I am sure that people who say these words “don’t mean it” and have no malicious intent, but people need to realize that the words they say and put out into the world have real power. Not only is it a reflection of themselves and the way they ch...
I love, love, loved, the part about words equalling actions. I wish that this were stressed more, being active about your opinion on social media is not the the thing that matters most.
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